It's recently
come to my attention that women are still as clueless about breastfeeding as
I was when I was first pregnant. Not only do they know nothing more than their
(gasp) OB can tell them (and that's scary), they don't know where to
find good info.
Many of us heard of the La Leche League while
still pregnant. They are a wonderful organization of other women who have
BTDT. They can help with minor problems, offer support, and give you the
real deal on growth charts for breastfed babies (oh yes, they are different
than those in your pediatrician's office) or whether you really have to pump
and dump on a particular medication. They are a fantastic resource for about
80% of women out there.
Then there are the rest of us. Those who
either don't have the time, resources, or whatever to attend a meeting in a
blue moon (and they'll still help you over the phone, so don't think you
have to be a "member" to benefit), or those of us with really difficult
problems.
My LLL leader was terrific. She really, really
tried to help me with my problems. But my problems were 1. nearly terminal
to the breastfeeding relationship and 2. much more urgent than a volunteer
can attend to.
Paid help in my area wasn't much better. They
were hospital nurses, and the hospitals around here pretend to be
breastfeeding friendly, but rely heavily on formula as a crutch that turns
into a fake set of legs very quickly.
So, what did a wired woman of today do but
turn to my discussion boards on BabyCenter. If you are truly having problems
with breastfeeding, or have questions that no one seems to be able to
answer, turn here! This board is co-hosted by expert Kathleen Huggins,
RN, lactation consultant and author of The Nursing Mother's Companion.
The breastfeeding problems board was the ONLY
thing that allowed me to breastfeed period, much less for 18 months the
first time (self-weaned) and an amazing 4 years the
second time. (I'll provide links at the end)
On the boards I also learned of the most
comprehensive, wonderful, in-depth website I'd ever seen on any subject,
much less on the subject of breastfeeding:
http://www.kellymom.com. It is absolutely amazing what you can learn on
this site. (And I'm not just saying this because one of my own articles has
an unsolicited link from their site! ;) ) For instance, did you know that
the temporary dip in supply you experience around the time of your period is
due to a calcium deficiency? 500 milligrams from the time of ovulation
through your period should eliminate it. This is the kind of info you can
find nowhere else!
When the Breastfeeding Problems board host
told me that I likely had a problem referred to as Raynaud's Syndrome, where
do you think I found the most comprehensive info? When I had to return
to work, but couldn't pump enough milk, where do you think I found the
pumping tips that nearly doubled my output? And when my son was nearly
diagnosed with failure to thrive, where do you think I learned it had
nothing to do with my supply and everything to do with food allergies? Etc, etc, etc.
Check out the site, pass it on to your friends
and family. Make sure everyone you know knows about this site. With the void
of knowledge/plethora of ignorance readily available to most women about
breastfeeding, this may be the best and last chance some of them have. Give
them the best gift ever, that of the knowledge to empower themselves!
BabyCenter's Breastfeeding Problems Bulletin Board/Forum
BabyCenter's Extended Breastfeeding Bulletin Board/Forum
BabyCenter's Other Breastfeeding Bulletin Boards/Forums
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